( Question from audience) “Bob, what’s your view on goals? Having goals?”
I don’t plan to set any goals. (Audience: You don’t?”)
No, they’re all off in the future and I don’t think the future has been born yet do you?
Okay? I don’t set any goals. I just get up and take care of the day all right. I get along.
(Audience: So that’s the same as expectations then would you say?)
Right, same, that’s a fact only goals you set that ‘I’m gonna do it!’ And when you don’t do it, you feel bad.
Right? You made it important to achieve that goal. (Audience says something I couldn’t hear I think she said I feel inferior)
When you made it important you feel anxious immediately, okay? (Audience says something again I didn’t hear- ‘I didn’t please myself’ I think she said) Huh? ( I didn’t please myself) what did you make important last night? Huh? (what did I make important?) Yeah (Marsha‘s birthday party) well, good, that’s really something to make important (laughs) Marsha is getting to be about the age to forget those birthdays , aren’t you Marsha? (absolutely) so if you wanna keep yourself awake all night, we’ll have fun.
But it’s not important.
