Purpose

Conscious

Make conscious and recognize that the reactive purpose simply cannot work for life on this planet.

Get at least somewhat of an understanding of valid basic questions:

What am I?
Where am I?
What's going on here?
What can I do?

On this basis, choose a purpose that will be the purpose that will be the prime frame of reference in every area of living- work, play, social, home, family, travel, etc., etc.

Example

Be what to me is a good guest - contribute to a pleasant, harmonious mood wherever I may be.

Being a peacemaker.

Living agape (love)

THEN self - discipline to practice this purpose until it is second nature.